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Sharing QT time….

 

Being with someone who has children is a major adjustment. Major adjustment is clearly an understatement. I’m not going to get into depth about it all because I don’t want my blog saturated with too much personal stuff but being that he’s the first guy that i’ve been with with a kid I suppose a few posts about him wouldn’t hurt. I suppose.

 

Anywho. This weekend we looked like a actual family. The three of us; eating, laughing, out and about…having a grand ole time. But, when it came time to winding down and just relaxing I’m use to cuddling in front of the tv. Ha, this weekend was a reality check- with a kid around its always “wait, hold on, sit up real quick, did you hear that?” literally there’s never  dull moment. Instead of cuddling to a movie, or taking a walk, we were pooped and took a nap. The time we normally spent bonding and just basking in each other presence we spent catching up on some shut eye. I felt like a old lady, if I wasn’t chasing her around or doing something for her or for myself than I would be somewhere trying to get relax.

 

This just makes me want to prolong the kid process even more. I look at it as …more kids the less time “we” have for each other. *shrugs* But, then again if I already feel old now chasing after just one - just imagaine how much older i will feel if I wait. smh…the decision us females have to deal with.